Andrew Pace Articles on Sex

1. How good is your knowledge about sex?
2. You don't have to be "big" to satisfy a woman!
3. Clueless in Seattle
4. The Challenge of A Woman's Orgasm
5. Experiential Teaching Session
6. Shortbus Movie - Searching for Orgasm
7. Effect of Sexual Abuse on Ability to Have Orgasms

A man's sexual knowledge determines how well he performs in giving women orgasms.  His knowledge is much more important than his physical endowments.  Did your Dad or anyone else ever explain about having sex with a woman, about orgasms, and about how to give a woman a real orgasm so that she enjoys sex as much as you do?  Probably not!  Did you ever read a good book about it?  If you are like most men, you had to learn it on your own, if you ever learned it at all. 

We are anxious, uncertain, and, in many instances, ineffective in bringing our sex partners to orgasm.  Are you confidently able to satisfy a woman every time?  Probably not.  Are you sure that your partner has never faked an orgasm?  No.  Are you certain that your penis is large enough to satisfy your partner?  Probably not?  Are you sure that you will never again experience premature ejaculation?  Embarrassingly No.  Do you know your partner's erotic hot spots that will give her the best orgasms?  Perhaps, but how do you find out?  Does she show you how to pleasure her?  No. 

Wouldn't it be great to have a manual that clearly explained all of these things so you could honestly say yes to all of the above questions?  One that showed you with text and photos the techniques for giving your partner multiple orgasms, one following the other by a minute or so, or one extended orgasm lasting up to an hour? 

You can do something about it.  You can get the information and learn the techniques to improve your sexual performance to a level where your female partner experiences orgasm, multiple orgasms, or an extended orgasm every time you make love to her.

Andrew Pace     www.orgasm-doctor.com

(From a Male) "Most of my lovemaking sessions have been 15 minutes or less.  I have never seen a woman have multiple orgasms, so that is something I strive for.  Your techniques make great sense, are easy to follow, and are effective and very fun!"

Enough said.

Current myth glorifies an extra large penis and endless athletic thrusting as the best way to bring on a woman's orgasm.  Just look at current porno movies and websites for confirmation.  TV commercials selling erectile dysfunction pills imply that a hard penis is all you need to delight a woman.  They tap into our doubts about sexual adequacy.  Try to understand it from a woman’s point of view.  Would she rather be filled up comfortably with the average length (about 6 inches) or rammed painfully with something much longer?  Men, use your head and common sense!  Even porn stars (both men and women) admit that length alone won’t guarantee orgasm and pleasure for women.

To bring on a woman's pleasure, a man needs to be good at kissing, touching, stroking, licking, nibbling, and sucking, all of which women find incredibly stimulating, exciting, and satisfying, especially if the man is skilled at knowing just where and how to perform them, and at what pace or rhythm.  Use your hands and fingers and tongue to stimulate her to incredible orgasms.  Try a vibrator for variety.  With this knowledge, techniques, and information, you will be able to give countless orgasms to women, regardless of your penis size.

Andrew Pace     www.orgasm-doctor.com

(From a Female) "This (web site) explains that it is not the size that matters -- it is important to know how to float the boat -- and use other techniques to please the woman"

Many active, successful men are clueless when it comes to knowledge about the female anatomy.  Dr. Ernest Grafenberg, after whom the famous G-Spot is named, wrote in 1950, " ... there are so many erotogenic areas in the female body that we can almost say that there is no part of the female body which does not give sexual response.  The partner has only to find the erotogenic zones." 

For a man to become a superb lover, he must not only be able to find those sensitive zones, but also know how best to stimulate them to bring her to orgasm.  One woman commented, "As a woman, I am familiar with these techniques (for achieving orgasm).  I believe they would improve the sex life, however, of ANY man.  No question!" 

How many men are frustrated and feel threatened because they cannot bring their female partner to a full orgasm?  Or think their penis may be too small to satisfy their woman's needs?  Or sometimes experience premature ejaculation?  Or lack confidence when it comes to sex?  Many, many men fall into this category. 

If you seriously care about your partner's pleasure during sex and want her to be satisfied, if you want to learn more about her erotogenic zones so that you can give her more pleasure and ecstasy during sex, you should definitely check out my O-Book, The Orgasm-Doctor, at www.orgasm-doctor.com.  It will change your life.

Andrew Pace

The dictionary defines "orgasm" as an intense physical and emotional sensation accompanied by unrestrained excitement that is experienced at the peak of sexual passion.  Many women rarely if ever experience true orgasm.  They grow dissatisfied with their own sex life and frustrated with their partner's sexual performance.

Does that describe your relationship?  You are not alone!  Studies from the Kinsey Report(1953), The Hite Report (1974) and many others including "Understanding the Female Orgasm" by Al Cooper PhD, conclude that between 45% and 70% of women do not achieve sexual satisfaction and are consequently disappointed by their partners.  Men, too, have doubts about their sexual prowess which can inhibit their pleasure. 

Research has shown that improved sexual knowledge and understanding are essential in  enabling men to magnify a woman's sexual pleasure by stimulating her in different ways to bring on a full and complete orgasm, and in most cases, multiple orgasms or one extended orgasm lasting up to one hour.  Unfortunately, most books and websites offer ineffective "fluff" on this subject.

What is needed is a step by step instruction manual that teaches numerous techniques, illustrated with photos, for bringing a woman to orgasm, multiple orgasms, or one extended orgasm lasting up to an hour.  With this “arsenal” of techniques, and with patience and persistence, a man can gently find the one or two that work reliably with his woman every time they make love.  Every woman is different in how she responds.  This what it takes to overcome the challenge of a woman’s orgasm.

Andrew Pace     www.orgasm-doctor.com

Hi Andrew,  I have just visited your site that is selling your ebook teaching how to provide the most incredible orgasms to a woman.  I always feel that a coaching or experiential teaching sessions would really leap-frog one ahead in achieving this greatly desired and important skill.  Do you know of any woman that would actually offer such services?  Truly, D.

Response - Dear D., I have been thinking about your question.  Every woman is different in how she experiences orgasm and what it takes to bring her to orgasm.  The challenge for a man is to discover that particular individual path to orgasm for the woman he is with at that particular time.  I suppose you could try calling an escourt service to find a woman who would coach you in these matters.  That would be quite expensive, and could you really trust her advice?  The best path is for you and your wife/girl friend to explore the techniques together to find which ones work best for her.  It might take a month or two of trying different techniques before you discover the best combination.  In one instance of my own knowledge, it took over six months to discover the magic touch to bring on her orgasms!  You must be patient and persistent, but gentle.  I recommend The Orgasm-Doctor as a great place to begin your journey toward achieving bigger, better, and more orgasms with your partner. 

Sincerely yours, Andrew Pace    www.orgasm-doctor.com

Some of you may have seen the movie “Shortbus”, an explicit and disturbing tale about a female sex therapist’s journey to achieve an orgasm.  Her husband thinks that his mindless and endless thrusting in contorted positions will do the trick, but to no avail.  She smiles and pretends to enjoy it, faking an orgasm.  She rationalizes that it is she who must claim her own orgasm for herself, that he cannot give it to her.  At the end of the film, she finally realizes that there are many subtle, gentle, and loving techniques that her partner needs to provide to bring on her orgasm, which techniques she learns from a couple who experience regular orgasms together. 

There is really no need to resort to group sex, with its voyeurism and lack of intimacy, to realize your dream of achieving orgasm.  The surest, most exciting way is to explore various techniques privately and intimately with a loving partner, exercising patience and persistence to find the best path to bigger, better, and more orgasms together.   Men should take the lead in learning the techniques that will provide their sex partners reliably and consistently orgasms every time they make love.  The Orgasm-Doctor O-Book is a good place to begin learning about these techniques with illustrated instructions.  It will change your sex life forever.

Andrew Pace     www.orgasm-doctor.com

Question from a visitor to the Orgasm-Doctor.com website:  "Will these (orgasm) techniques work on someone who has never had an orgasm and was sexually abused as a child?"

Response:  Every woman reacts somewhat differently to these techniques.  In the case of a woman who was sexually abused as a child, the main factor is trust in her sexual partner.  Once trust has been established, the woman can begin to relax and concentrate on her enjoyment of the techniques without fear of abuse.  Her partner must be understanding, patient, and willing to go slowly at her pace rather than at his own.

In one particular case I am familiar with a woman who had been raped as a young girl and threatened with her life if she told anyone about it.  She carried that fear for many years and it interfered with her enjoyment of sex, as you can imagine.  Much later in her life, and over a period of six months, she developed trust in her new sexual partner while he gently tried various methods to bring her to full orgasm.  After trying different techniques and learning about her stimulation spots, he imaginatively combined this knowledge into a simultaneous combination, called the Quattro Manipulation (see the website), which successfully brought her to a series of incredible orgasms that she had never experienced before.  From that time on, she was able to enjoy huge multiple orgasms every time they made love, but it had taken over six months of trust building and experimentation to reach that point.  I hope this has answered your question.

Andrew Pace     www.orgasm-doctor.com

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